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Here are many myths
and misconceptions about suicide.
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Digital Creativity
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Myth: A person attempting suicide says, "God beckons me. "
Fact: This goes with some religious beliefs and is a debatable
issue. It is likely that the person is experiencing hallucinations in which
he is "hearing voices or seeing images". Many categories of
mentally ill persons have this symptom, and timely medical help can save
them.
Myth: When even some religious treatises have
advocated suicide, how can it be prevented ?
Fact: This is a controversial area varying from religion to
religion. Most religions in the world consider suicide as a sinful act,
since God’s gift of life should not be cut short in a tragic way without
completing the allotted span.
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Myth: Only others commit suicide. It will not happen to
me.
Fact:
Everyone has a fleeting thought of ending his/her life in a crisis situation,
but not everyone pursues the thought. When these thoughts and wishes become
repetitive, progressive, cumulative and interfere
with one’s activities, suicide is likely.
Myth: People who talk about suicide do not commit it,
but only threaten to do so.
Fact:
While a few use the technique of minor degrees of self-injury to draw the
attention of people around them, many give early clues at some point. After
such clues, some progress to complete the attempt. In Indonesia, nearly two-thirds of patients
had seen their doctors one month before killing themselves and one-third of
these had expressed suicidal intentions before carrying it out. In India, nearly 10-20% of suicide
victims had seen a physician a few days prior to the act.
Myth: A person committing suicide never reveals his/her
intention to anyone.
Fact:
This is not always true. The majority of people give a clue or warning
feeler, sign or an act which should be taken seriously, as a cry for help.
According to a recent study from Bangalore, about one-third of those
committing suicide had verbally communicated or told someone or indicated
their suicidal ideation indirectly a few days earlier. In Thailand, half of those committing the
act gave clear warning signs.
Myth: A person
who attempts suicide will definitely complete it at some time.
Fact:
Not everybody who attempts suicide is likely to repeat it. Timely help, support and buffer mechanisms can get rid of the
death wish. Studies show that the risk of completing suicide among those who
attempt it varies between 1 and 10%.
Myth: If a person is saved once, there is no need to
bother about him later.
Fact:
A large number of those who attempt suicide need to be watched carefully over
a period of time. There is evidence to show that 1-10% of such people repeat
the act. After a brief period of recovery, if the person goes back to
contemplating death, he needs to be observed, supported and cared for.
Myth: Only poor people commit suicide.
Fact:
Not true. Suicide is not a problem related to class, age or gender. Depending
on the social, environmental, economic or mental health status, anybody can
commit suicide. Because of social deprivation among the poor, the frequency
of suicide among them is also comparatively higher.
Myth: Suicide
runs in families, so nothing can be done.
Fact:
Even though suicide has a biological basis, evidence of a hereditary basis is
scientifically lacking. There is a possibility that some psychiatric
conditions which predispose to suicide can occur in families.
Myth: Suicidal persons are always mentally ill.
Fact:
This again is not entirely true. However, a large number of people attempting
suicide are depressed, unhappy, sad or violent before the act. Further,
mentally ill persons carry higher risk of suicide due to the disease process
and consequent difficulties in reasoning, judgement
and actions. But many physically and mentally healthy people also commit
suicide.
Myth: Asking about suicidal thoughts may precipitate it.
Fact:
Asking about suicide does NOT precipitate it. In fact, not asking about
suicide may prevent identification of a person at risk for suicide.
Frequently, doctors will directly ask patients about their suicidal ideation
if they feel they are at risk.
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As one family member pointed out…
"How can this person be expected to be happy after going
through a horrible life with poverty, with no money for clothing, shelter
or food, and an unemployed and drunken husband indulging in illicit
affairs?"
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